The Liyag blog

Honest dating tips for Filipino singles, from the first message to meeting the family.

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  First message ideas that actually get replies

  "Hi" is not a conversation starter. Here is what to send instead, with examples you can steal.

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  Signs someone is serious about you

  Consistency, plans and the people they introduce you to say more than any sweet message.

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  Panliligaw today: Filipino courtship in the age of dating apps

  From harana to "seen-zoned": what has changed about ligaw, and what still matters.

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  Meeting your partner's family in the Philippines

  Mano po, pasalubong and the titas’ questions: how to make a good first impression.

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  Cheap date ideas in the Philippines (under ₱500)

  Good dates do not need a big budget. Twelve ideas that cost less than a fancy dinner for one.

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  Ghosting: why it happens and what to do about it

  Why people disappear mid-conversation, how not to take it personally, and how not to do it yourself.

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  Green flags to look for when you’re dating

  Everyone talks about red flags. These are the quiet signs that someone is good for you.

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  Dating after 30 in the Philippines

  Surviving "Kailan ka mag-aasawa?", knowing what you want, and why your thirties are a good time to date.

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  Dating as a single parent in the Philippines

  When to mention your kids, how to protect them, and how to find someone who sees the whole package.

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  Valentine's Day date ideas in the Philippines

  Beat the Feb-ibig rush: ideas for new couples, long-time partners and anyone on a budget.

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